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July 15, 2019
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  • - So all this week, we're answering your questions.
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    • - So all this week, we're answering your questions.
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    • Some of you have said that you feel
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    • Some of you have said that you feel
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    • like life is passing you by,
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    • like life is passing you by,
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    • but today we're talking about the secret
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    • but today we're talking about the secret
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    • to living a fulfilled life at any age.
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    • to living a fulfilled life at any age.
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    • Come on, let's join the conversation.
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    • Come on, let's join the conversation.
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    • - So we've had so many amazing people write in
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    • - So we've had so many amazing people write in
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    • and on Instagram and Facebook,
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    • and on Instagram and Facebook,
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    • and so this week, we're just gonna concentrate
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    • and so this week, we're just gonna concentrate
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    • on viewer questions.
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    • on viewer questions.
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    • You guys ready?
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    • You guys ready?
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    • - Okay, all right. - Bring on the questions!
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    • - Okay, all right. - Bring on the questions!
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    • - Dee Dee gets all the hard ones.
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    • - Dee Dee gets all the hard ones.
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    • - Oh yeah.
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    • - Oh yeah.
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    • - Give it to Dee Dee.
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    • - Give it to Dee Dee.
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    • - [Dee Dee] I know all the answers, right?
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    • - [Dee Dee] I know all the answers, right?
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    • - Having pastors that know everything,
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    • - Having pastors that know everything,
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    • but you know, so many people are
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    • but you know, so many people are
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    • having struggles finding where they are in life right now,
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    • having struggles finding where they are in life right now,
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    • so many life changes.
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    • so many life changes.
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    • You know, retirement, or your kids are gone,
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    • You know, retirement, or your kids are gone,
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    • or you've just maybe had a divorce
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    • or you've just maybe had a divorce
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    • and all that stuff.
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    • and all that stuff.
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    • So this is from a viewer, she says
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    • So this is from a viewer, she says
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    • "I'm over 30 and still no husband or kids.
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    • "I'm over 30 and still no husband or kids.
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    • "I feel like I've been left behind."
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    • "I feel like I've been left behind."
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    • That's too bad.
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    • That's too bad.
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    • - Yeah.
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    • - Yeah.
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    • - "Is there something wrong with me?"
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    • - "Is there something wrong with me?"
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    • Another viewer wrote us on Facebook and said,
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    • Another viewer wrote us on Facebook and said,
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    • "I'm almost 60 and I really want to be the woman
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    • "I'm almost 60 and I really want to be the woman
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    • "that God wants me to be.
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    • "that God wants me to be.
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    • "Where do I begin?"
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    • "Where do I begin?"
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    • So it's all over the map for people right now.
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    • So it's all over the map for people right now.
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    • You know, I was speaking to a pastor's wife the other night
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    • You know, I was speaking to a pastor's wife the other night
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    • and she said in Seattle where they pastor,
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    • and she said in Seattle where they pastor,
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    • she said, "We did like man on the street."
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    • she said, "We did like man on the street."
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    • And she said, "Woman over 50 that we stopped to talked to
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    • And she said, "Woman over 50 that we stopped to talked to
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    • "was like saying "I feel like I'm done.
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    • "was like saying "I feel like I'm done.
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    • ""I feel like it's over for me."" and I--
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    • ""I feel like it's over for me."" and I--
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    • - Well we might as well just throw in the towel.
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    • - Well we might as well just throw in the towel.
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    • - I know, it's like boy, if we feel that way
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    • - I know, it's like boy, if we feel that way
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    • then we'd all probably be off the platform except her.
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    • then we'd all probably be off the platform except her.
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    • (laughing)
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    • (laughing)
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    • - I just think the idea of peaking is just wrong.
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    • - I just think the idea of peaking is just wrong.
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    • Like, I've peaked here,
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    • Like, I've peaked here,
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    • or even the concept of mid-life crisis.
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    • or even the concept of mid-life crisis.
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    • You think about it, you know,
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    • You think about it, you know,
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    • 100 years ago we probably wouldn't be, it's like the age,
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    • 100 years ago we probably wouldn't be, it's like the age,
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    • so mid-life now is not, it's not what it was.
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    • so mid-life now is not, it's not what it was.
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    • It's a different season.
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    • It's a different season.
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    • There are people at 50 just starting their
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    • There are people at 50 just starting their
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    • whole life again and so I think sometimes when we,
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    • whole life again and so I think sometimes when we,
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    • we should be able to accomplish and do what we want
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    • we should be able to accomplish and do what we want
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    • regardless of how old we are.
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    • regardless of how old we are.
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    • Right?
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    • Right?
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    • The person, I was just looking up some things
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    • The person, I was just looking up some things
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    • about this thinking that the person who invented
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    • about this thinking that the person who invented
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    • the Popsicle was 11 years old.
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    • the Popsicle was 11 years old.
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    • - Say what?
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    • - Say what?
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    • - Exactly!
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    • - Exactly!
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    • 11 years old invented the Popsicle
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    • 11 years old invented the Popsicle
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    • and then the guy who invented the
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    • and then the guy who invented the
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    • Braille alphabet was 15.
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    • Braille alphabet was 15.
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    • - [Laurie] Oh wow.
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    • - [Laurie] Oh wow.
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    • - And so young people, no milestones,
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    • - And so young people, no milestones,
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    • they're just going for it,
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    • they're just going for it,
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    • and then what was Ray Kroc in the 50's or something
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    • and then what was Ray Kroc in the 50's or something
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    • when he did McDonald's,
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    • when he did McDonald's,
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    • and Benjamin Franklin was in his 70's
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    • and Benjamin Franklin was in his 70's
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    • when he invented bifocals,
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    • when he invented bifocals,
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    • so I just think we have to be careful
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    • so I just think we have to be careful
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    • about putting limits on ourself,
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    • about putting limits on ourself,
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    • or say I've peaked, or I've reached this.
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    • or say I've peaked, or I've reached this.
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    • I just think every day you be grateful for what you have
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    • I just think every day you be grateful for what you have
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    • and trust God with the next.
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    • and trust God with the next.
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    • - But life can be so fulfilling at every stage
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    • - But life can be so fulfilling at every stage
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    • that we're in. - Yes!
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    • that we're in. - Yes!
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    • - And it was so sad that she said that about 30,
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    • - And it was so sad that she said that about 30,
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    • how you think your life is almost nothing
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    • how you think your life is almost nothing
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    • because you don't have children, or a husband.
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    • because you don't have children, or a husband.
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    • Your life could be fulfilling regardless
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    • Your life could be fulfilling regardless
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    • of who and what's in your life.
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    • of who and what's in your life.
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    • I love how Paul said in the Word how whatever
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    • I love how Paul said in the Word how whatever
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    • stage he was in, he learner how to be content.
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    • stage he was in, he learner how to be content.
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    • You have to learn how to be content.
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    • You have to learn how to be content.
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    • Contentment does not mean to settle for where you are,
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    • it just simply means I enjoy where I am
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    • and I think once you can find out who you really are,
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    • your true identity in Christ,
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    • You know, one of the viewers wrote in about
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    • how they felt like their life was over at age 60.
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    • Well that hit me a little strong because I'm 55,
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    • so that means that I only have five more years to live?
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    • No, my life is not over at 55,
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    • it's not gonna be over at 60,
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    • it's not gonna be over at 65.
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    • My life won't end until they lay me in the ground,
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    • and so I pray that you be encouraged today
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    • to never give up, to never quit,
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    • The Word of God says that we will flourish,
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    • that we will bring full fruit in our old age.
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    • Old is a state of mind, it's all relative,
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    • it's how you feel about yourself.
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    • We know we're not as young as we were when
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    • we were 16, and 18, and 20.
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    • You may can't go back and do some of those things,
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    • but there are some things that you can do in
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    • this season that you are in.
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    • Don't ever quit.
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    • Don't ever stop growing.
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    • Here I am at 55 just completing my doctoral program.
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    • Here I am at 55 just completing my doctoral program.
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    • I am the official.
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    • I am no longer emerging.
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    • I am Doctor Dee Dee Freedman
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    • who have graduated with her doctoral degree at age 55.
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    • who have graduated with her doctoral degree at age 55.
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    • How?
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    • Because I didn't quit,
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    • so don't quit today.
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    • - I love the way he said
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    • "I have secret, I know this secret."
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    • - Secret.
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    • - You know, I know the secret,
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    • I finally realized as I've been going and growing,
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    • there's a secret and it's called contentment.
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    • - Mhmm yes.
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    • - You know, so it's not a secret anymore everybody.
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    • It's not a secret. - It's not a secret.
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    • - But you know I think that sometimes what
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    • I know what's fulfilling in my life is not
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    • always what I get to do, or what I've been called to do,
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    • - Yeah, that's good.
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    • - That fulfill you.
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    • And you can be 60, you can be 80.
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    • I've cultivated with other people.
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    • (sounds of agreement)
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    • You know, and I believe that comes a lot of times
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    • - [Dee Dee] Oh absolutely.
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    • - And so when we start doing that we feel isolated,
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    • we feel like we're not enough.
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    • - [Dee Dee] Well that's the flood of social media.
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    • - Yeah, that's what I was gonna say.
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    • We start setting up milestones 'cause we've
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    • Well, who says?
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    • We put these weird pressures on ourself
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    • - It's better to be single and be happy,
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    • than to be married and wish you were single.
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    • - You know, another thing that we were talking
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    • about last night is being happy in your present,
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    • you know because I think you know,
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    • the poor little girl saying "I'm 30 and
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    • "I'm not not married and I don't have kids".
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    • If you don't enjoy this time right now,
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    • God can make up in a moment what you feel you've lost.
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    • - Absolutely - [Young On] I agree.
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    • - Across the board..
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    • - And I think I like what you said about
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    • how people compare.
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    • I think we compare our seasons to other people's seasons
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    • when we're not the same people.
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    • We haven't has the same relationships,
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    • I know when I was starting my career at a young age,
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    • a lot of my friends were getting married
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    • and I did feel very behind,
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    • and then they would say, they're my good friends,
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    • they kind of discovered their purpose and their career,
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    • and we both eventually found our families,
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    • and our husbands, and our careers,
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    • but what a sad thing had I put all of my energy
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    • and their circumstance.
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    • - Out of time, they'll be out of time.
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    • - To a certain time,
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    • - To a certain time,
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    • and that's something I had to think of in that time,
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    • when I wasn't dating, and I was just kind of career focused,
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    • was I'm just gonna kill it while I'm in it.
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    • While I'm in this, I'm gonna kill it.
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    • I'm gonna kill this phase,
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    • where I'm single and I have my good girl friends,
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    • and some are getting married and some are not,
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    • I'm just gonna kill it.
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    • And then now, I've been married for almost five years,
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    • And then now, I've been married for almost five years,
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    • we don't have kids,
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    • but in this season, I'm gonna kill it while I'm in it.
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    • And at that point--
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    • - Kill it's good, right?
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    • - Kill it's good, right?
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    • (ladies laugh)
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    • (ladies laugh)
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    • - All right, let me explain,
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    • - All right, let me explain,
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    • kill it while I'm in it!
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    • kill it while I'm in it!
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    • I guess there was a more spiritual way to say that.
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    • I guess there was a more spiritual way to say that.
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    • To the 30 year old woman
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    • who feels like maybe she's a little bit behind,
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    • because she's not married, she doesn't have kids,
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    • oh my goodness, I so understand how you feel.
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    • I have felt that so many times in my life,
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    • I have felt that so many times in my life,
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    • like my life is not what hers is,
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    • or it's not what I think the culture's standard is,
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    • and what is the right thing for me to be doing,
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    • and is my timeline off?
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    • I know that's exhausting and that's real,
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    • and I get that.
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    • I remember feeling that way
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    • and there was no prospect in sight for me.
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    • But I had my passion and the call of God on my life,
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    • I had this career I was working on,
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    • I felt a little insecure about it at the time,
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    • like was I investing in the wrong thing?
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    • Cause I didn't have what everyone else had.
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    • But now, some years later,
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    • they have now found their careers, and now I'm married,
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    • and they've told me that they felt the same way back then.
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    • That they had a husband, they got married
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    • and had a marriage they loved,
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    • but they didn't have a career they loved yet.
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    • That just made me realize
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    • that not all of our timelines are the same.
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    • that not all of our timelines are the same.
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    • Not all of our lives are the same,
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    • Not all of our lives are the same,
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    • not all the calls of God on our lives are the same,
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    • not all the calls of God on our lives are the same,
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    • our vocation's not the same,
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    • our vocation's not the same,
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    • our relationships are not the same.
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    • our relationships are not the same.
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    • We cannot fall into the trap
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    • of comparing our timeline with somebody else's.
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    • Wherever you are, whatever God has called you to do,
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    • Wherever you are, whatever God has called you to do,
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    • you do that.
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    • Don't look to the left or the right, look straight up.
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    • Do what God is calling you to do.
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    • And I'm so glad that I did it the right way
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    • for what God had for me,
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    • and that my friends did it the right way
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    • for what God had for them.
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    • Just because your life doesn't look
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    • Just because your life doesn't look
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    • but I bet you it's gonna be something even more,
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    • even more than the limitation you've put on your life.
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    • So take the limits off, stop comparing.
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    • see how you can use that
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    • to the best of your ability in the season you're in.
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    • That's how I felt,
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    • and I was like since I'm here I'm gonna kill it,
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    • and when I was single I was like, you know what?
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    • I'm gonna become interesting through it.
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    • - Yes!
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    • - I'm gonna be the kind of woman
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    • I hope the guy I want to marry would want to be with.
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    • - Absolutely.
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    • - And now that we're a young married couple with no kids,
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    • we hope our kids would, man--
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    • we hope our kids would, man--
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    • - I'm glad that my parents.
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    • - I'm glad that my parents.
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    • - Yeah, would be raised in, yeah.
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    • - Yeah, would be raised in, yeah.
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    • So I think kill it as a positive.
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    • - Maximizing moment.
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    • - Maximizing moment.
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    • - That's way more spiritual.
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    • - That's way more spiritual.
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    • Maximizing moment!
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    • Maximizing moment!
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    • No, but truly, and here's what I'm gonna say about that,
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    • No, but truly, and here's what I'm gonna say about that,
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    • about comparing people's seasons.
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    • about comparing people's seasons.
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    • There's a different time, a different season for everyone.
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    • There's a different time, a different season for everyone.
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    • - But how do you do that, though?
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    • - But how do you do that, though?
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    • Cause the struggle's real.
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    • Cause the struggle's real.
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    • - No, but like you said!
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    • - No, but like you said!
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    • Developing relationships, you know,
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    • and this doesn't have to be with a child or a husband.
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    • and this doesn't have to be with a child or a husband.
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    • - There's this friend of mine, who,
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    • - There's this friend of mine, who,
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    • I'm telling her story, anyway, I'll get permission later,
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    • I'm telling her story, anyway, I'll get permission later,
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    • so she just turned 50 and has never been married,
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    • does a big job around the world
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    • making a huge difference around the world.
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    • making a huge difference around the world.
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    • So, hasn't gotten married yet,
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    • and that's real,
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    • ask the question.
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    • But what she has done,
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    • she fills her world with younger women.
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    • So she is pouring into them,
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    • in fact she calls them her kids,
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    • and they come over and they just want to hang out with her
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    • and be with her.
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    • She has a very rich life,
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    • and it's not even discounting the sorrow,
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    • and I grieve with her, cause I get it,
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    • I understand what you think you want and you didn't get,
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    • but this moment that you have, so what can you do?
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    • but this moment that you have, so what can you do?
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    • Right, you can live a life of grief,
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    • Right, you can live a life of grief,
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    • or you can bring people in, it's the relationships.
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    • - You know, I think a lot of that
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    • - You know, I think a lot of that
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    • is placing your joy somewhere else
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    • than my present day, right here.
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    • than my present day, right here.
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    • And you know, Jesus is, God is our joy, you know?
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    • And you know, Jesus is, God is our joy, you know?
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    • - This is it.
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    • - We have to be content where we're at,
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    • we have to know that His peace and His joy
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    • So we can't place our,
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    • when I get married I'm gonna feel fulfilled,
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    • when I get out of this divorce I'm gonna be fulfilled.
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    • when I get out of this divorce I'm gonna be fulfilled.
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    • We can't place that joy anywhere but in your present,
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    • to rejoice in the Lord today.
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    • to rejoice in the Lord today.
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    • I think it's a real disadvantage to us
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    • when we place our hope and our joy in a future decision,
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    • or when he asks me to marry him,
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    • or when I get that job or when I get that,
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    • then I'm gonna be fulfilled and I'll be happy.
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    • I don't think that's the way it works.
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    • Jesus says, "I am your peace."
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    • Jesus says, "I am your peace."
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    • He is our joy, He's our strength.
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    • He wants to be our everything in our now,
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    • and if we can just get that,
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    • and if we can be happy,
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    • and if we can be not happy, but if we can be joy-filled,
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    • and peaceful in the place where we are now,
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    • God is gonna do great things for you
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    • God is gonna do great things for you
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    • because you've realized that He is your everything.
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    • is to build His kingdom and not yours.
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    • It's not to build my kingdom.
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    • And I think sometimes we use social media
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    • to elevate our platform, and again,
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    • making people aware of what you're doing is great,
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    • but are you willing to maybe promote someone else's book?
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    • or is it all yours?
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    • or is it all yours?
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    • I mean, these are the questions I ask myself.
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    • Am I cheering anybody else on,
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    • Am I cheering anybody else on,
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    • or is it just my own world?
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    • or is it just my own world?
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    • So I think perhaps if we get great
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    • at cheering other people on and celebrating other people,
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    • at cheering other people on and celebrating other people,
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    • putting something on our feed or our story,
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    • or on Facebook, however,
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    • cheering on somebody else,
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    • that might go a long way toward
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    • that might go a long way toward
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    • making it not entirely about us.
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    • making it not entirely about us.
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    • - You can stream Better Together episodes on the go.
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    • - You can stream Better Together episodes on the go.
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    • - Download the TBN app to watch our latest conversations.
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    • - Download the TBN app to watch our latest conversations.
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    • - You know, we were even talking last night at dinner
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    • - You know, we were even talking last night at dinner
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    • about having a sick child, or a disabled child,
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    • about having a sick child, or a disabled child,
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    • and believing and praying for a sickness in your life.
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    • and believing and praying for a sickness in your life.
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    • Do you constantly talk about that day when they're healed,
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    • Do you constantly talk about that day when they're healed,
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    • or do you know that God is our strength and our joy today
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    • or do you know that God is our strength and our joy today
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    • to live out what we're gonna live out today,
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    • our walk of faith.
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    • our walk of faith.
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    • - And to your point that out,
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    • it's so easy to go, "I should be content,"
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    • but the how of it, and so I think we've--
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    • - It's a practice.
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    • - It's a practice.
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    • - And you're not gonna say,
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    • "Today I've checked that off my list."
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    • "Today I've checked that off my list."
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    • - Right, every day getting up.
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    • - Right, every day getting up.
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    • - Every day, making a difference.
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    • - Every day, making a difference.
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    • - You know where I want to be,
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    • You know the desires of my heart.
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    • You said that You want to give me those desires,
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    • but today, give me,
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    • I want to be busy doing what You have me to do.
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    • I want to be busy doing what You have me to do.
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    • - That's it, right there.
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    • - That's it, right there.
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    • - Until that time comes.
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    • So what you're really doing is you're just trusting God
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    • So what you're really doing is you're just trusting God
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    • and that just comes with practice,
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    • and I believe we have to do it every single day.
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    • Contentment to me doesn't mean complacency.
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    • to be grateful with what's going on in your life right now,
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    • to be grateful with what's going on in your life right now,
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    • on the way to where you're going.
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    • You may have more dreams, more desires,
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    • but be content with the gifts
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    • knowing that there are greater things in the future.
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    • knowing that there are greater things in the future.
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    • - I mean what the Scripture says is
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    • How about taking our attention of off ourselves
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    • - To get over yourself.
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    • - To get over yourself.
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    • - Really becoming a giver,
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    • I think you become more content with what you have.
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    • where I would invest into more relationships,
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    • intentionally give more,
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    • intentionally give more,
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    • I became more aware of what I had
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    • and became more content with who I already was.
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    • I gave more; oh, I don't have
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    • but I can be giving and giving to these other families
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    • that are also missing a piece.
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    • that are also missing a piece.
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    • I think when we become intentional givers,
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    • we become more content with what we have.
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    • - You're just beginning.
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    • - You're just beginning.
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    • Get out of yourself, begin to serve others.
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    • and fulfillment and joy comes in serving others.
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    • You know, the beauty of this is
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    • you keep your head down, keep loving, keep serving,
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    • keep doing what God has called you to do,
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    • and everything that you wanted to see
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    • it's gonna attach itself to you.
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    • The Bible says to seek Him first,
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    • and all these things, not some of these things
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    • What are some of the things that you want?
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    • Well, serve God, seek Him first,
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    • Well, serve God, seek Him first,
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    • and you're gonna see those things begin to attach to you.
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    • - You know, sometimes we think about things,
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    • all of our friends here, they look so beautiful,
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    • but we don't go the next step and tell them.
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    • - Yeah.
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    • - And I really believe that that is a very important way
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    • - And I really believe that that is a very important way
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    • to fulfill your life, is to begin to tell other people.
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    • to fulfill your life, is to begin to tell other people.
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    • - That's very good.
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    • - That's very good.
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    • - About, not just think the compliment,
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    • not just think about writing them a note,
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    • but actually go through with it.
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    • - Yes, just giving kindness away.
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    • - Yes, just giving kindness away.
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    • - And it's amazing how it comes back to you.
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    • - And it's amazing how it comes back to you.
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    • The fulfillment comes back to you,
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    • The fulfillment comes back to you,
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    • the smile comes back to you in your own heart,
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    • when you see a smile.
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    • And so I really think
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    • one of the most exciting things in life
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    • one of the most exciting things in life
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    • is really making someone else's day.
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    • Because when you make someone else's day,
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    • it's amazing how God will make your day.
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    • it's amazing how God will make your day.
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    • - [Hosanna] That's another practical thing.
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    • - [Hosanna] That's another practical thing.
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    • - Of that, like lifting your eyes
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    • - Of that, like lifting your eyes
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    • off of what you want so much,
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    • and realize that it may not happen that way,
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    • but God has other ways to fill you up,
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    • and to really be that vessel of just grace and servanthood,
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    • and to really be that vessel of just grace and servanthood,
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    • and all those things that God
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    • really has us on this earth to do.
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    • really has us on this earth to do.
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    • - All right, let's see.
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    • - All right, let's see.
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    • - All right, let's see.
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    • - All right, let's see.
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    • From our Facebook partner, Pamela asks,
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    • From our Facebook partner, Pamela asks,
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    • "Can you recommend a Bible study
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    • "Can you recommend a Bible study
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    • about learning to love yourself
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    • about learning to love yourself
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    • and find out who you are in Christ?"
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    • and find out who you are in Christ?"
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    • She says, "I am almost 60 and have little self-confidence
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    • She says, "I am almost 60 and have little self-confidence
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    • or love for myself."
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    • Aw, we feel you.
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    • Aw, we feel you.
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    • "I really want to be the woman that God wants me to be."
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    • - You know, there's so many good books
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    • - You know, there's so many good books
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    • and good Bible studies, I mean,
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    • Beth Moore and Lisa Harper.
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    • Beth Moore and Lisa Harper.
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    • - Chris Caine.
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    • - Chris Caine.
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    • - Chris Caine, yeah,
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    • - Chris Caine, yeah,
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    • there's so much.
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    • Victoria's "Exceptional You,"
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    • Victoria's "Exceptional You,"
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    • Christine Caine's "Undaunted and Unashamed,"
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    • Christine Caine's "Undaunted and Unashamed,"
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    • those books are amazing,
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    • and I just think there's so much
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    • good stuff out there that can build you up in the Lord,
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    • good stuff out there that can build you up in the Lord,
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    • and tell you who you are in Christ,
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    • and get you on a better path,
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    • because God's got you and your confidence is in Christ.
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    • because God's got you and your confidence is in Christ.
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    • It's not in ourselves.
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    • - Isn't that a beautiful thing,
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    • - Isn't that a beautiful thing,
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    • that we don't have to have confidence
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    • but we can have confidence in who God is
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    • on the inside of us.
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    • on the inside of us.
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    • You can do it, we believe in you.
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    • You can do it, we believe in you.
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    • - Yes, we do.
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    • - Yes, we do.
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    • If you need some friends to lift you up,
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    • you just found them right here.
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    • you just found them right here.
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    • - Connect with us on social media,
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    • - Connect with us on social media,
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    • and let us know how we can pray for you.
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    • and let us know how we can pray for you.
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    • - Even going back to the last one of your questions
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    • with the young lady who was talking about,
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    • she was 60, and she feels like it's over.
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    • - Young lady, I like how you put that.
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    • - Young lady, I like how you put that.
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    • - She's a young lady, because at 55, 60 is young.
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    • - She's a young lady, because at 55, 60 is young.
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    • (women laugh)
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    • - What are you, how old are you?
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    • - What are you, how old are you?
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    • - 55.
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    • - 55, and you just got your Ph.D.
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    • - 55, and you just got your Ph.D.
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    • So you're not quitting, it's not over,
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    • it's fresh wind in your sails.
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    • it's fresh wind in your sails.
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    • - Exactly, that's just what I was getting ready to say,
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    • - Exactly, that's just what I was getting ready to say,
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    • because even in Scripture in Psalm 92,
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    • because even in Scripture in Psalm 92,
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    • it talks about how we shall bring forth,
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    • bring forth fruit in old age.
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    • bring forth fruit in old age.
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    • You know, old is relative,
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    • cause it's a state of mind,
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    • and to me it's not old,
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    • but in her mind, 60 is old, like she's done,
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    • she's over, it's finished.
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    • she's over, it's finished.
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    • No, it's not over; you don't throw in the towel.
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    • It ain't over until you say it's over.
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    • - My little 96 year old grandmother would say,
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    • - My little 96 year old grandmother would say,
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    • I'd say, "how are you doing today?"
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    • She goes, "Oh, I have wings like angels,
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    • and my youth is restored,"
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    • and she would just say all of that cute little stuff,
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    • and it just kept her young.
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    • - Well, God renewed her youth like the eagles,
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    • - Well, God renewed her youth like the eagles,
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    • and those are the things
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    • that should be coming out of our mouth.
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    • that should be coming out of our mouth.
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    • Your grandmother had the secret of being content,
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    • and believing that when that word comes out of your mouth,
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    • it's gonna produce in your life.
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    • it's gonna produce in your life.
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    • - Too many people, we feel old compared to
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    • - Too many people, we feel old compared to
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    • what the society, the culture puts on TV
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    • and things like that, and it really is important
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    • what's coming out of our mouths.
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    • - You're never too old to get a second wind
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    • - You're never too old to get a second wind
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    • - You're never too old to get a second wind
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    • or a third wind from God, ever.
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    • Until you get to heaven, you've got a job to do.
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    • So seasons change, you know,
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    • So seasons change, you know,
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    • maybe when you're in your 20's and 30's and 40's,
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    • perhaps the energy that it takes to do a job is one thing,
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    • and maybe in your 50's and 60's and 70's,
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    • it's not that you don't work, it's that it shifts,
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    • the role shifts, so even with us,
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    • you know our job, the day to day pastoring of a church,
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    • you know our job, the day to day pastoring of a church,
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    • we'll be handing that off here,
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    • we'll be handing that off here,
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    • and then we'll become the overseers and the wisdom,
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    • and meet with people on big picture stuff,
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    • so my job's not done.
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    • It's just shifting a little bit.
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    • So I can focus on different and bigger things, perhaps.
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    • So I can focus on different and bigger things, perhaps.
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    • You're not finished, if you're still breathing,
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    • you're still here, and you're here for a reason.
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    • you're still here, and you're here for a reason.
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    • And I say lift your head up
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    • and look around, and where is there a need?
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    • And if you're watching this and you're 60 plus,
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    • there are some young women who are struggling
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    • in your circle of influence,
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    • and they probably can use some of the wisdom that you have.
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    • or taking some people out to lunch.
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    • Find something that will fuel again,
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    • some dreams in you.
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    • and ask God to open some doors for you,
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    • because He's not finished.
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    • You're still breathing.
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    • so find what it is He wants you to do.
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    • is who do you spend time with?
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    • or are you spending time with people
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    • who are focused on what they used to have.
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    • - Or wish they would've, could've.
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    • - Right, would've, could've, should've, that.
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    • - Right, would've, could've, should've, that.
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    • So when you're spending time with people who are energizing,
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    • it energizes you, it challenges you.
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    • It makes you think, I could go back to school,
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    • It makes you think, I could go back to school,
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    • or I could learn something new,
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    • or I could learn something new,
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    • you know, like your mom.
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    • - Yeah, my mom just recently,
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    • - Yeah, my mom just recently,
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    • she would say she's got a new lease on life.
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    • she would say she's got a new lease on life.
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    • She just got into school,
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    • She just got into school,
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    • yeah she's gone into college,
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    • yeah she's gone into college,
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    • and she just started a new part-time job
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    • and she just started a new part-time job
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    • that she says was secretly her dream job,
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    • that she says was secretly her dream job,
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    • but she just never really went out for.
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    • but she just never really went out for.
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    • And I think she would say in a practical sense,
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    • And I think she would say in a practical sense,
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    • because she knows the Word, she loves the Lord,
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    • because she knows the Word, she loves the Lord,
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    • and she also feels these things about contentment
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    • and enjoying her present,
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    • and enjoying her present,
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    • but I think she would say
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    • that she had to stop running full-force
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    • that she had to stop running full-force
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    • to all these old dreams,
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    • to all these old dreams,
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    • like she was a failure, she didn't make these dreams,
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    • like she was a failure, she didn't make these dreams,
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    • and I think she had some self-awareness
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    • and some courage to have some new dreams,
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    • and some courage to have some new dreams,
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    • and to self-assess where is she now,
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    • where is she really,
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    • where is she really,
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    • so for her having a new lease on life,
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    • so for her having a new lease on life,
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    • it's not the same goals or the same life I had before,
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    • it's not the same goals or the same life I had before,
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    • it's not the same direction I was before,
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    • it's not the same direction I was before,
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    • but I'm gonna change my direction
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    • but I'm gonna change my direction
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    • and now I have new goals, new dreams,
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    • and now I have new goals, new dreams,
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    • I'm in school, I have this new job,
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    • I'm in school, I have this new job,
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    • but it's also this self-awareness of,
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    • but it's also this self-awareness of,
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    • am I running full-force toward the right goals,
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    • am I running full-force toward the right goals,
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    • or am I killing myself for these old goals,
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    • or am I killing myself for these old goals,
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    • killing myself, comparing myself to someone else's standard?
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    • killing myself, comparing myself to someone else's standard?
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    • What's God's standard and call on my life today?
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    • What's God's standard and call on my life today?
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    • And then running full-force towards that.
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    • And then running full-force towards that.
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    • I think that sets people free.
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    • I think that sets people free.
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    • - Perfect, and I think that's so good what you said,
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    • - Perfect, and I think that's so good what you said,
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    • because we have to sometimes stop.
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    • because we have to sometimes stop.
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    • It's okay to stop, it's okay to be quiet,
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    • It's okay to stop, it's okay to be quiet,
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    • it's okay to rest, it's okay to let God speak to you.
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    • it's okay to rest, it's okay to let God speak to you.
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    • And I think just like this young, sweet 60 year old,
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    • And I think just like this young, sweet 60 year old,
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    • you know what, maybe it's just time
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    • you know what, maybe it's just time
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    • to let God speak some new dreams,
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    • to let God speak some new dreams,
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    • flow some new breath into yourself,
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    • flow some new breath into yourself,
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    • because I think that's the key right there.
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    • because I think that's the key right there.
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    • - We don't want you stuck today,
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    • - We don't want you stuck today,
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    • you know, people feeling that their life's over,
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    • you know, people feeling that their life's over,
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    • that it really doesn't mean anything,
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    • that it really doesn't mean anything,
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    • but I'm here to tell you today, right now,
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    • but I'm here to tell you today, right now,
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    • that if you're still breathing and you still have breath,
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    • that if you're still breathing and you still have breath,
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    • that you're here for a purpose
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    • that you're here for a purpose
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    • and that you're here for a reason.
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    • and that you're here for a reason.
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    • The Bible says, "Let everything that has breath
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    • The Bible says, "Let everything that has breath
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    • "praise the Lord," and so that's what we're gonna do today.
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    • "praise the Lord," and so that's what we're gonna do today.
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    • We're gonna get unstuck, and we're gonna praise the Lord.
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    • We're gonna get unstuck, and we're gonna praise the Lord.
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    • And sometimes it's like, I'm going to rejoice.
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    • And sometimes it's like, I'm going to rejoice.
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    • Oh my soul, you rejoice! So we want to rejoice today.
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    • Oh my soul, you rejoice! So we want to rejoice today.
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    • That means to re-joy yourself in the Lord.
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    • That means to re-joy yourself in the Lord.
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    • God's got good plans for you, and it's not over.
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    • God's got good plans for you, and it's not over.
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    • You know, if it was over,
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    • you wouldn't be here anymore.
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    • you wouldn't be here anymore.
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    • You wouldn't be alive today if it was over for you.
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    • You wouldn't be alive today if it was over for you.
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    • So let me just pray for you.
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    • So let me just pray for you.
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    • Father, I pray in Jesus's name,
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    • Father, I pray in Jesus's name,
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    • God that You help us re-joy ourselves in You,
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    • God that You help us re-joy ourselves in You,
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    • and who You say we are.
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    • and who You say we are.
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    • Father, I pray that the peace of God
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    • Father, I pray that the peace of God
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    • that passes all understanding,
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    • that passes all understanding,
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    • Father, just envelop us,
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    • Father, just envelop us,
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    • envelop the sisters and the brothers
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    • envelop the sisters and the brothers
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    • that are out there that are watching right now.
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    • that are out there that are watching right now.
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    • God, I pray that they feel Your embrace
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    • God, I pray that they feel Your embrace
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    • like they've never felt it before.
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    • like they've never felt it before.
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    • God, and I pray that You renew them.
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    • God, and I pray that You renew them.
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    • Father, I pray that they get Your grace every day,
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    • Father, I pray that they get Your grace every day,
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    • and that they receive that
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    • and that they receive that
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    • and that they live on that,
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    • and that they live on that,
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    • and that they realize that Your mercies
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    • and that they realize that Your mercies
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    • are new every morning.
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    • are new every morning.
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    • Father, and let them live in that,
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    • Father, and let them live in that,
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    • let us all live thriving after God till our last breath.
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    • let us all live thriving after God till our last breath.
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    • In Jesus's precious name, I love you.
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    • In Jesus's precious name, I love you.
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    • You can call the number on your screen right now
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    • You can call the number on your screen right now
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    • to talk to a prayer partner.
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    • to talk to a prayer partner.
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    • We're here for you 24 hours a day, 7 days a week.
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    • We're here for you 24 hours a day, 7 days a week.
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    • We love you, and most importantly, God loves you.
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    • We love you, and most importantly, God loves you.
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    • - Call or text?
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    • But the thing about texting, is that it's hard,
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    • if it's just a quick little thing, then okay.
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    • But sometimes people try to have full-on conversations
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    • and I can't tell, what's the meaning behind this?
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    • and I can't tell, what's the meaning behind this?
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    • What's the intonation?
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    • So that's where I can get in trouble.
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    • So that's where I can get in trouble.
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    • - And a lot of my text messages with people I work with
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    • - And a lot of my text messages with people I work with
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    • is hey, how about a call at five?
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    • is hey, how about a call at five?
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    • It's like a hey, set a time, and that's really good.
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    • It's like a hey, set a time, and that's really good.
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    • I don't think long conversations.
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    • A lot of my friends are facetimers,
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    • actually we facetime a lot.
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    • actually we facetime a lot.
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    • I don't know what it is,
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    • but sometimes my friend will facetime me
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    • while she's driving.
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    • I shouldn't say that, kids, don't do that.
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    • I shouldn't say that, kids, don't do that.
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    • She's irresponsible.
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    • She's irresponsible.
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    • - Here's what's happening tomorrow on Better Together.
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    • - Here's what's happening tomorrow on Better Together.
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    • - From cancer to financial, people stealing money,
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    • - From cancer to financial, people stealing money,
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    • it's just like people betraying you,
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    • it's just like people betraying you,
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    • which is like boom, boom, boom.
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    • which is like boom, boom, boom.
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    • Identity theft, I mean it was just like
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    • Identity theft, I mean it was just like
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    • one thing after another.
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    • one thing after another.
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    • - Watch Better Together right here on TBN.
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    • - Watch Better Together right here on TBN.
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    • (soft music)
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    • (soft music)
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